§227 She just keeps insisting on trusting and loving me – why??September 24, 2008
It’s 22:33. I have a mountain of dishes to do, and homework for accounting school tomorrow. One and a half hour ago I had the same amount of things to be done, but more time to do it on.
I’ve wasted an hour and a half on nothing. I seriously have no idea what exactly I did. I didn’t even read all of my subscribed blogs, only a few. And I wrote a necessary letter to our insurance agent. But the things and the time just adds up until what was more prioritized to do ends up for the last moments.
What does my wife do? Tells me? Nags me? Tells me to get my butt off the chair?
No. She does nothing. It’s like she’s treating me like an grown up. Like an equal. It’s like she trusts me or something.
(For the record she can’t do the dishes due to medical reasons).
Will she suffer from my irresponsibility? Yes she will. I’ll be up doing the dishes, finishing my homework until 1 o’clock and she’ll be in bed trying to fall asleep but can’t until I’m there. She’ll get up at 6 o’clock when the kids wake up just like me.
Still – nothing. No nagging. No “get the dishes done already”. Nothing.
She is punishing me by treating me like I don’t deserve to be treated.
I love her.
And why is she always right??